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Cómo aprender a perdonar

Leer | MATEO 6.9-15
18 de julio de 2013
¿Le resulta difícil perdonar a quienes le han herido? Si es así, puede que las siguientes cuatro pautas le sean de mucha ayuda:
1. Reconozca y confiese delante de Dios que tiene un espíritu rencoroso. Aunque no siempre resulte fácil perdonar, a veces, somos el blanco de ofensas extremadamente dañinas. Sin embargo, no somos responsables por la conducta de otras personas, sino solo de la nuestra. Dios nos ha ordenado que seamos comprensivos y perdonadores. Si guardamos rencor, ese es nuestro problema, no de la otra persona; debemos arrepentirnos de este pecado y pedirle a Dios que nos ayude a superar nuestra falta de perdón.
2. Deje de estar pensando en la otra persona. Tome la decisión consciente, de dejar de pensar en el ofensor. Si se encuentra reviviendo constantemente los detalles de la conducta de la otra persona que le produjo la molestia, oblíguese a no hacerlo más.
3. Perdone al ofensor, y olvide el agravio. Mantener detalles frescos en la mente, le atrapa en un ciclo de dolor que solamente le afecta a usted. Decida más bien separar a la persona del recuerdo doloroso.
4. Perdone con carácter definitivo. El perdón genuino es completo. Esto significa que usted no puede “perdonar” a alguien, y después seguir hablando del tema. Perdone a esa persona, y después siga adelante.
Si usted se ha mantenido empecinado en la amargura, pida a Dios las fuerzas para perdonar. Y hágalo después, sin demora.
Dios te bendiga!

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